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My Achalasia Story
Dear Fellow Achalasia Patients,
I write this blog today during a beautiful, sunny Spokane, Washington, Sunday. As I write I wonder how all of my fellow achalasia patients out there are doing.
Achalasia is a rare disease. I know from experience that it helps to talk to others who have the same affliction. It is hard to believe that October 4, 2011, will be the fourth anniversary of my repair surgery. Life is far better than it was for the seven years before the surgery. Prior to that time, I was not aware of the term “achalasia.” Therefore, what I would like to tell all of you is that there is hope. Do not struggle with your current situation, as professional help is available.
In my case I was officially diagnosed with achalasia in August 2007. I had no idea what achalasia was and was not particularly worried with the term. Being as curious as I am, I immediately went home after my esophageal dilation procedure and waited for the anesthesia to fully leave my body so I could hop on the Internet and read exactly what achalasia was all about. Holy Molie! I became scared almost to death! There is truly frightening stuff out there on the Web. In fact, after reading the stuff, I thought I would be dying soon, and this was no happy thought!
I have a lot of people who depend on me and a lot of responsibilities in my life, so I began trying to take care of things in my now suddenly expected short life. I called my doctor, and he said I most certainly was not near death, but I thought he was just trying to be optimistic and nice. I wasn’t having any of it!
To my husband’s dismay, I planned my own funeral arrangements to save him the trouble. Yep, I selected a simple coffin and a nice cemetery with a view. It seems that relaxation for me only takes place when I have a view. Weird as it may seem, I was at peace making time payments on my selected plot and even bought one for my husband next to me. Of course, he would not be using it for a long time after me, since he would have a long, healthy life, I figured. The thought of him marrying too soon, without a respectable time mourning my passing, was disturbing, so I pushed those thoughts right out of my mind. I was having enough trouble as it was.
Back to my achalasia. Now it was time to complete more research, so back to my computer I went. I ordered every natural remedy out there, although there were only a few at the time. Still hopeful in spite of my funeral planning, I faithfully followed directions on all of them. My physician told me there was no cure but that most achalasia patients live with the disease and do not die from it. Yipes! That was not reassuring.
My weight dropped 69 pounds suddenly. It scared my kids and my husband. Previously I was a tubby, but this was no way to lose weight. I could not get or keep much food down. My stomach sphincter was so tight that it would allow only a trickle of fluid through to my stomach. My regurgitation was out of control, and since my diagnosis was vigorous achalasia, it brought the worst type of pain. Sometimes my esophageal pain would last an hour. My family timed it, and it seemed that I could not bear the duration of the pain. Often I would run out of the house and walk around the house, using my animal instinct to flee. Nothing worked and for the first time in my life I could understand people wanting to die because of pain.
Stay tuned for the second installment of my story. There is hope at the end of the tunnel.
Karen Jean Matsko Hood
Achalasia Support Group
James and Karen Hood Foundation
507 North Sullivan Road, Suite LL-6
Spokane Valley, WA 99037-8576 USA
E-mail: karenscustomerservice@gmail.com
Phone: (509) 924-3550 | Fax: (509) 922-9949
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A Helpful Guide to International Adoption
It is often a difficult, emotional and confusing journey through the process of international adoption. Once you have jumped through one hoop, there seems to always be another waiting for you. And although the hoops are necessary, it is comforting to have information of which to refer.
Some frequently asked questions encompass the differences in the types of adoptions. International adoption laws differ from country to country. For a child to be eligible for an international adoption program, he/she must qualify under the laws of their country of origin. You must comply with U.S. federal laws and the laws of your home state to be even considered to adopt. U.S. Federal law does not prohibit Americans to adopt regardless of age, sex, race, color, national origin, religion, or income; various international agencies however, do often restrict those who have developmental or physical disabilities, single parents, or even those with a lower income. For children abroad to come to the United States, you must determine if they are eligible to immigrate under the U.S. Immigration and Nationality Act.
Types of adoption processes differ as well. If you travel abroad and at one of the family owned and run facilities you feel a deep connection to one of the children and you want to bring this into your home and ultimately, your family, this type of international adoption is independent and usually places all of the weight of the adoption process on your shoulders. Depending on the kind of adoption you chose, the more or less likely you will encounter ethics and high standards in the adoption process. Further, depending on the kind of adoption you chose, the more or less likely you are to be exposed to better costs, children’s health and facilitator competence.
Building from various laws to types of adoption, the actual process of adopting your child can again be, a confusing process on your journey in expanding your family. There are more players in the adoption process than you may expect. Your family and the parent(s) of the child, professional agencies, attorneys, adoption specialists, and licensing specialists are some of the players you need to be aware of. Nationally or internationally, the business and personal ethics of each player spreads across the board.
The application process is essential for the adoption to be successful, and regardless of the type of adoption you chose, one thing remains the same: the placement home study. A home study is basically a series of appointments with an adoption professional. After you find an agency within the United States to work with your international adoption, a local caseworker is assigned to your individual case. Usually there is a minimum of four visits (depending on the state and/or country) between you and your assigned caseworker.
Out of all the decisions, applications, visits, and international laws and so on, the most agonizing part of the adoption process is usually the waiting game. It can take between months and years or more for a family to receive a referral on a child. After approval, it takes time for you and your future child to be matched. Time is dependant upon the race, origin, other county’s laws, U.S. immigration laws, developmental disabilities, age, and etc. This process has been compared to a biological family’s pregnancy period. Each time a child is matched, it is an emotional “pregnancy test” for those waiting. Once approved, its been described as a metaphorical “labor.’ If the child match falls through, the description is an even more emotional “miscarriage.” Even with the pressures of your emotional roller coaster, your are expected to keep up with the expectations your state, country and country of your potential child. f you do not receive your referral or your matched child within a year, the previously mentioned placement home study must be renewed every twelve months.
After the waiting and the arrival of your newest family member, there are obligations you are responsible for. A minimum of three more visits (depending on the sate and/or country) are required. Nutrition, childhood development, emotional issues, discussing the adoption and education are only a few of the subjects you will encounter. For international adoption, more pressing matters include culture shock and communication difficulties.
There are many hoops to jump through in the adoption process. Many of those hoops will most likely be wrought with confusion if you do not have the proper resources to help on your journey to adopt a child. Thus, there is a need for a guide to be written, not only to fill the literary gap in detailed adoption information, but also to educate society on the importance of international adoption as well as the importance of the legitimate people who work to make life a little easier for those attempting to understand the adoption process.
About the Author
Karen Hood was born and raised in Great Falls, Montana. As an undergraduate, she attended the College of St. Benedict in St. Joseph, Minnesota, and St. John’s University in Collegeville, Minnesota. She attended the University of Great Falls in Great Falls, Montana. Hood received a B.S. Degree in Natural Science from the College of St. Benedict and minored in both Psychology and Secondary Education. Upon her graduation, Hood and her husband taught science and math on the island of St. Croix in the U.S. Virgin Islands. Hood has completed postgraduate classes at the University of Iowa in Iowa City, Iowa. In May 2001, she completed her Master’s Degree in Pastoral Ministry at Gonzaga University in Spokane, Washington. She has taken postgraduate classes at Lewis and Clark College on the North Idaho college campus in Coeur d’Alene, Idaho, and Taylor University in Fort Wayne, Indiana. Hood is working on research projects to complete her Ph.D. in Leadership Studies at Gonzaga University in Spokane, Washington.
Karen Hood is also an avid child advocate. She works with children as a foster parent in the State of Washington as well as a Court Appointed Special Advocate (CASA) volunteer in the juvenile court system in Spokane County. Hood and her husband have a strong passion to fight for the plight of abused and neglected children and the rights of all children on a local, national, and international level. Hood is also Guardian Ad Litem (GAL) and a CASA volunteer for abused and neglected children in the juvenile court system. Hood is an advocate of literacy for children and has written many articles and books on this subject. She also has written many articles on the rights of children and is currently working on books about the plight of children.
For more information, you can contact the author at her office below:
Karen Jean Matsko Hood
507 N. Sullivan Rd. Suite LL-7
Spokane Valley, WA 99037 USA
Phone: (509) 924-3550 Fax: (509) 922-9949









